or what do you do if you don’t trust the Bible, but you still want to connect with God?
There’s Hope Beyond the Bible
Let’s be real—sometimes the traditional ways of connecting with God just don’t hit the same anymore. Maybe you’re burned out on church. Maybe Bible studies and Sunday sermons feel more draining than life-giving. But deep down, you still want to grow your faith. You’re not ready to give up on God, even if you’re not sure what spiritual practice looks like for you now.
If that’s you, you’re not alone—and you’re not broken. In fact, there are rich, deeply intellectual, and soul-nourishing alternatives that don’t require sitting in a pew or flipping through devotionals you don’t connect with.
Let’s talk about how you can keep growing spiritually without going back to the same things that left you feeling stuck.
Step Away from Sermons—Step Into Spiritual Curiosity
Instead of forcing yourself through another church service, consider diving into the work of spiritual philosophers, Christian mystics, and theologians who ask big questions and leave space for nuance.
A few powerful voices to explore:
- C.S. Lewis – A Christian thinker who understood doubt, imagination, and faith in tension.
- Dallas Willard – His writing on spiritual formation goes beyond religious routine into transformation.
- Lynn Cohick – A lesser-known but brilliant scholar who specializes in women’s studies and offers deep academic insight into Scripture.
- Jimmy Carter – Yes, that Jimmy Carter. The former U.S. president taught Bible studies, lived out his faith through service, and offered humble wisdom without the ego. His faith was lived, not preached.
These resources can help reignite your spiritual life from a place of depth, not obligation.
Be Cautious About Ego-Driven Christianity
A word of warning: not every “Christian” voice out there is worth following.
Some authors start off grounded in faith but end up preaching their own glory. They build a platform more about their personality than about God. These voices may twist Scripture into self-help soundbites or treat the Bible as a means to validate their brand, rather than as a living source of wisdom.
If someone sounds like they have all the answers, that’s a red flag.
Stay grounded in humility-centered faith. Look for teachers who approach God with reverence, not just relevance. Wisdom is a process—it requires listening, questioning, and staying open to change.
Seek Wisdom That Fears God (Not Just the Algorithm)
At the heart of this journey is a call to real humility.
The Bible says, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” (Proverbs 9:10) For those deconstructing or wary of traditional faith language, think of this as a reminder: you don’t have to know everything, and that’s okay.
There will always be someone smarter, someone with more insight. True spiritual growth comes when we admit that we don’t have it all figured out—and we’re willing to learn from others who also admit they don’t either.
Wisdom isn’t just revelation; it’s research. It’s trial and error. And it’s being open to the idea that what we once believed might no longer serve us. That doesn’t make you wrong—it makes you human.
You’re Not Alone on This Journey
If you’re tired of church but still want to grow in your faith, you’re in good company. There’s a growing movement of Christians choosing a deeper, more honest walk with God—one that doesn’t always look like Sunday morning, but still leads to transformation.
So ask the hard questions. Read the deep thinkers. Don’t be afraid to take a break from the traditional to rediscover a God who isn’t confined to church walls.
And if you’ve found any books, podcasts, or teachers who’ve helped you? Drop them in the comments. Let’s keep learning, questioning, and growing together.
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