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  • EP 16: The Hidden Crisis in DIY Spirituality

    🔍 What This Video Covers: Discover the shocking truth about what happens when people leave organized religion for DIY spirituality. Based on a recent NPR investigation, this video explores the hidden challenges faced by “nones” – people who’ve abandoned traditional… Continue reading

    EP 16: The Hidden Crisis in DIY Spirituality
  • EP 15: Beware of These Toxic Faith “Friends”

    Deconstruction saved my faith, but some deconstruction communities are destroying people’s hope. In this honest video, I’m exposing the toxic patterns I’ve witnessed in faith deconstruction spaces that claim to offer healing but actually keep people stuck in bitterness. 🚨… Continue reading

    EP 15: Beware of These Toxic Faith “Friends”
  • Faith Crisis to Faith Choice: Why I Still Believe After Questioning Everything

    I’ve asked myself the same questions you probably have—What if this whole Christianity thing isn’t real? What if I’ve built my life on a story that isn’t true? It’s a hard question. A vulnerable one. But it’s also honest. And… Continue reading

    Faith Crisis to Faith Choice: Why I Still Believe After Questioning Everything
  • The Hidden Crisis in DIY Spirituality

    An NPR segment highlights the challenges faced by individuals who leave organized religion for personalized spiritual paths. Initially appealing, these communities often vanish during crises, lacking the support usually found in traditional churches. The importance of prioritizing service and connection… Continue reading

    The Hidden Crisis in DIY Spirituality
  • Recognizing Toxicity in Faith Support Groups

    The article highlights the risks of deconstruction support groups that perpetuate negativity and bitterness instead of fostering healing. It warns against “ditch dwellers” who focus on past church trauma without seeking solutions. The author encourages individuals to identify toxic patterns… Continue reading

    Recognizing Toxicity in Faith Support Groups
  • Generational Trauma in Christianity: How Your Childhood is Sabotaging Your Spiritual Life

    Generational trauma significantly influences our relationship with God and spirituality. Attachment styles from childhood, particularly toward fathers, shape how individuals perceive God. Many people carry unresolved issues into their faith, leading to disconnect and doubt. Recognizing these patterns can promote… Continue reading

    Generational Trauma in Christianity: How Your Childhood is Sabotaging Your Spiritual Life
  • Ep 14: Childhood Trauma Maybe Sabotaging Your Faith

    The content discusses the impact of generational trauma and father wounds on faith in American churches. It explores how childhood attachments influence one’s relationship with God, reasons for church abandonment, and characteristics of healthy spiritual communities. The hashtags highlight themes… Continue reading

    Ep 14: Childhood Trauma Maybe Sabotaging Your Faith
  • Poor Expectations: an accidental college student’s metamorphosis out of mediocrity

    By: Laura Farhy I never should have gone to college. The only reason I went was because a concerned friend took it upon herself to enroll me, register me for classes, and apply for scholarships, so I could afford to… Continue reading

    Poor Expectations: an accidental college student’s metamorphosis out of mediocrity
  • Ep 13: How to Fight with God

    This isn’t the most comfortable topic, but it’s an important one. Processing difficult emotions with God is part of a healthy spiritual life. It’s part of taking ownership of your faith and building a relationship that can withstand the storms.… Continue reading

    Ep 13: How to Fight with God
  • EP 12: What do I need to believe?

    You’re walking through faith deconstruction, wrestling with your beliefs, or trying to take ownership of your faith (while feeling disenfranchised by the institutional church) you’re not alone. Many people are asking: “What if I want to hold onto Jesus but… Continue reading

    EP 12: What do I need to believe?

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