Laura Farhy
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Recognizing Toxicity in Faith Support Groups
The article highlights the risks of deconstruction support groups that perpetuate negativity and bitterness instead of fostering healing. It warns against “ditch dwellers” who focus on past church trauma without seeking solutions. The author encourages individuals to identify toxic patterns… Continue reading
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Generational Trauma in Christianity: How Your Childhood is Sabotaging Your Spiritual Life
Generational trauma significantly influences our relationship with God and spirituality. Attachment styles from childhood, particularly toward fathers, shape how individuals perceive God. Many people carry unresolved issues into their faith, leading to disconnect and doubt. Recognizing these patterns can promote… Continue reading
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Ep 14: Childhood Trauma Maybe Sabotaging Your Faith
The content discusses the impact of generational trauma and father wounds on faith in American churches. It explores how childhood attachments influence one’s relationship with God, reasons for church abandonment, and characteristics of healthy spiritual communities. The hashtags highlight themes… Continue reading
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Poor Expectations: an accidental college student’s metamorphosis out of mediocrity
By: Laura Farhy I never should have gone to college. The only reason I went was because a concerned friend took it upon herself to enroll me, register me for classes, and apply for scholarships, so I could afford to… Continue reading
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Ep 13: How to Fight with God
This isn’t the most comfortable topic, but it’s an important one. Processing difficult emotions with God is part of a healthy spiritual life. It’s part of taking ownership of your faith and building a relationship that can withstand the storms.… Continue reading
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EP 12: What do I need to believe?
You’re walking through faith deconstruction, wrestling with your beliefs, or trying to take ownership of your faith (while feeling disenfranchised by the institutional church) you’re not alone. Many people are asking: “What if I want to hold onto Jesus but… Continue reading
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EP 11: You are a Theologian
Doctrine and theology form the essential beliefs that guide our understanding of God and our faith practices. Engaging in questions about faith indicates that individuals are already participating in theology. The content encourages discussions on these topics, especially for Christians… Continue reading
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EP10: Deconstructing or Quietly Quitting Christianity?
If you’ve been hearing the term “deconstruction” thrown around in Christian circles and wondering what it really means, you’re not alone. There’s a lot of confusion (and unfortunately, fear) surrounding this concept. Spoiler alert it isn’t a “new trend.” Some… Continue reading
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